Critical Reading For Exams / Short Reading Comprehension 10


If a man were to accost the first homely featured or plain-dressed young woman of his acquaintance, and tell her  bluntly, that she was not handsome or rich enough for him, and he could not marry her, he would deserve to be  kicked for his ill manners; yet not less is implied in the fact, that having access and opportunity of putting the ques-  tion to her, he has never yet thought fit to do it. The young woman understands this as clearly as if it were put into  words; but no reasonable young woman would think of making this the ground of a quarrel. Just as little right have  a married couple to tell me by speeches, and looks that are scarce less plain than speeches, that I am not the happy  man—the lady’s choice. It is enough that I know I am not: I do not want this perpetual reminding.  (5)
 



What does the author mean with the phrase, “putting the question to her,” as used?

Asking her to accept him the way he is
Asking her whether he is handsome
Asking her whether she has money
Asking her to marry him
Asking her for another date

What is the overall theme of this passage?

It is rude for people to convey to the author by simple looks that they know he is not a happily married man and probably won’t be for some time, if ever.
Looks can hurt just as much as words but words are better.
It is rude not to propose if you are involved with someone for a period of time.
The verbalization of certain acts or omissions may be considered more rude than those same acts or omissions thereof.
It is better to say what is on your mind in order to reduce the risk of someone misunderstanding a look or a gesture.

What does the author mean in the phrase, “and looks that are scarce less plain than speeches”?

People should say what is on their mind rather than just convey it in looks.
Words are the best way to fully communicate because looks can be misunderstood.
Looks may convey almost the exact meaning as words.
You don’t need to say anything if your looks are clearly understood.
It is impolite to not say what you are trying to convey with looks.

How does the author choose to inform the reader that he does not wish to be reminded of his situation?

By showing how easy it is for people to just say what they are thinking
By presenting an analogous situation with role reversals
By simply stating that he does not want to be reminded of what he already knows
By referencing looks and money as the only personal attributes necessary for happiness
By inferring that all unmarried people are homely and poor and can expect no suitors