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Mindfulness (Key Points)

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What is mindfulness?
- Non-distraction and awareness
- Acceptance and non-judging

Attention
-filters both perceptions and thoughts
-mindfulness's wide relevance is due to it's influence on attention

What are the fundamental mechanics of mindfulness?
Attend

- letting go of things that compete for attention and staying focused on what you are paying attention to

Release
- release other distractions that come up so you can keep your attention for a longer period of time

Mindful Eating (e.g. eating orange)
- choose an anchor for your mindfulness practice
- can be (broad) or (narrow)
- use orange as anchor
- broad= present moment awareness
- anything that is happening is fair game (sight, sounds, feeling)
- release any thoughts of the past or the future

Mindfulness vs. Meditation
- mindfulness can be practiced at any time during any activity
- meditation is taking some time to deliberately engage in some type of quality of mind where it is your whole focus
- being mindful during your daily life and meditating during the day go are mutually reinforcing

Definition of mindfulness, including two main components
- Self-regulating of attention to focus on present moment
- Taking an open, curious, non-judgmental stance towards one's present experience. (Paying attention to what is happening, being aware of present moment - being experientially open to reality of present moment, accepting it)

Difference between mindfulness and thought
- Mindfulness can only exist in the present moment, it is non-conceptual awareness of the present, it involves direct perception of reality through our five senses
- Thought is one step removed from reality, you can think about past or future but to be mindful only exists in present, thought is a way to interpret reality but it is removed from it, it is dead, it is a label, it is a representation (language)

The difference between accepting an outcome and not caring about an outcome
Acceptance is defined as 'being experientially open to the reality of the present moment,' trying to 'be' with the experience as it is rather than immediately trying to make it go away

What mindfulness is NOT
Mindfulness is NOT about having positivity or having a blank mind, becoming emotionless/detached, withdrawing from life, seeking bliss (clinging) or escaping pain (aversion)

Default Mode Network
Scientific discovery that when the mind is at rest, when we are at baseline, not doing anything it is highly active - brains are more active when we are not doing anything - evolutionarily developed (I have food and shelter, I now have down time, how can I prepare to fight off lion tomorrow) - sense of self is generated and we project this self into future and past, looking for problems - negativity bias: it is easiest to have negative emotions

Two core types meditation practice in mindfulness meditation
Concentration: involves keeping steady focus on single object, use single focal object (sound, breathing, body sensation, mantra, etc.), purpose is to anchor our awareness, calm and focus mind so it becomes less agitated, if keep mind still, will quiet down
Open Monitoring: allows awareness to rest on whatever object is most salient in the moment (sound, thought, sensation, emotion, etc.) rather than one focal object, can easily switch from one object to another without losing mindfulness, usually practiced after mind has settled after period of concentration

Main insight cultivated by mindfulness meditation
Insight is a key benefit of learning to pay attention to whatever arises in the present moment during mindfulness meditation, when we pay attention to what arises and passes away in awareness, we gain insight into the cause of our suffering

Research on the benefits of mindfulness (e.g. less depression and anxiety and better attention, behavioral control, and improved health)
-  Mindfulness is associated with more positive outcomes like happiness and life satisfaction, empathy, good relationships, etc.
-  Increases job satisfaction and reduces stress and exhaustion in the workplace
-  Increases ability to sustain attention and focus selectively, think more flexibly and efficiently.

The two key findings from the neurobiology of mindfulness
Mindfulness increases attention control (activity in prefrontal cortex)
Mindfulness decreases reactivity to threatening stimuli (amygdala)

Self-Compassion
-  Self esteem - Global evaluation of self worth - Potential problems with self-esteem: not if you have it, but how you get it.
-  Self compassion - Treating ourselves with the same care, concern and acceptance as you would a friend - Self-compassion: notice we are suffering, recognize that suffering is part of the shared human condition & responding with care and concern (Compassion means to suffer with)

Common domains in which people invest their self esteem
- Social approval, appearance, performance, etc.
- Perceived appearance most important domain affecting self-esteem
- Appearance even more important factor for girls, but still most important factor for boys
- In adolescence, girls rate appearance lower than boys, linked to lower self-esteem

Problems associated with the pursuit of high self-esteem
- Need to be special/above average to feel okay about oneself
- Self-enhancement bias: Most people feel they're above average
- Social comparison
- People may derive self-esteem from feelings of superiority
- Ego defensive anger- externalize blame rather than take responsibility
- Self-esteem is contingent on success in valued domains (appearance is our most valued domain)
- Self-esteem contingency leads to unstable feelings of self worth
- End result: feelings of inadequacy

Definition of Self- compassion and Three components of self-compassion
- Self Compassion:
extending compassion to one's self in instances of perceived inadequacy, failure, or general suffering.
- Kindness- treating self with understanding rather than harsh judgment - actively soothing and comforting ourselves
- Common humanity- seeing own experience as part of larger human experience rather than isolating or abnormal - Remembering that as humans, we are not perfect & life is not perfect
- Mindfulness- avoiding extremes of disconnection/over identification with painful feelings - Allows us to 'be' with suffering as it is

Common misconceptions about self-compassion
- The belief that it's weak, complacent, and passive
- It's a strong, powerful force that stands up to harm
- Self pity
- - Self-compassion linked to common humanity + more mindfulness
- Harsh self- judgment vs. constructive criticism
- - Judgments see people as good/bad
- - Constructive criticism point out the problems w/ behavior in a friendly way
-Self indulgence
- Self-compassion entails desire for long-term health, not short term pleasure
- Making excuses
- - Self compassion provides the safety needed to take responsibility for mistakes

Difference between mindfulness and self-compassion
- Mindfulness is relevant to any experience (positive, negative, neutral)
- Self compassion is relevant to pain + suffering (negative emotions)
- You can be mindful of eating a raisin - you can't have self-compassion for the raisin

Physiological underpinnings of self-criticism and self-compassion
- Threat defense system, cortisol and adrenaline, self-criticism: we are both the attacker and the attacked
- Mammalian care-giving system: oxytocin and opiates, signals to make young feel safe and warm (gentle touch, sound of compassion=aww, cross-cultural signals)
- Both the threat defense system and care-giving system are designed to make us feel safe, we feel safe because we have fight/flight reaction and because we have warmth/protection

Early influences on self-compassion
Parental criticism, conflict in the home, attachment security (early attachment to parents impacts later interpretations of relationship interactions - am i worthy, is the world safe), disordered attachment (childhood abuse/neglect turns people into harsh-self critics, don't know how to be kind to themselves)


4 ASPECTS OF WELL-BEING
our mind & thoughts
our actions
our relationships
the meaning of what we do

4 BALANCES
attentional balance
cognitive balance
emotional balance
conative balance (decisional)

Mindfulness
a non-judgemental awareness of the present reality, of our thoughts, feelings, sensations, and environment

neuroplasticity
brain develops continuously from birth to death | New thoughts and skills carve out new pathways | repetition and practice strengthen these pathways forming new habits

elements of mindfulness
intention
attention
attitude

INTENTION
-having a purpose

- knowing why we're doing what we're doing

motivation: the drive to the source of our desire

always deliberate

benefits:
-clarity in our life
-self-awareness

common obstacles of intension
tension
sleepiness
agitation

ATTENTION
the key to develop the other 3 balances
what we are focused on
how we are focusing

selective attention
ability to focus on one thing closely and ignore others
enables us to keep the focus

non-judgemental open awareness
ability to take in all of what's happening plus thoughts and feelings

5 point body posture
grounded balance
relax & straighten your back
relaxed neck, shoulders & arms
hands resting on lap or knees
eyes slightly gazing downward

6 sources of distraction
sight
smell
sound
touch
taste
thoughts

8 attitudes
acceptance
openness
curiosity
kindness
gentleness
warmth
trust
patience

COGNITIVE BALANCE
- the way we perceive reality is completely subjective
- thinking is actually just interpreting
- using a calm and focused mind to observe the nature of reality

vipassana
intelligent investigation into the central features of our existence

amygdala
store all emotional memories
when this is activated, it gives us the impulse to act without passing through the thinking part of our brain
when meditating we turn this off

thickened cortex
more grey matter
makes one more intelligent

thickened insula
turning into ourselves, feeling empathy for others

hippocampus
helps put things in context

brain plasticity
ability to change as a result of experience

Obsessive Compulsive Delusional Disorder
obsessive: can't turn off thoughts
compulsive: we get sucked into the thoughts
delusional: we think what we see is true
disorder: the way our mind works that is counterproductive and contrary to reality

Left Hemisphere
conceptual
language/words
planning
organizing
always in past/present
doing state

Right Hemisphere
perpetual
abstract/creative
always in present
where we feel
being state
nature is good for this

RAIN METHOD
recognizing thoughts
acknowledge the unpleasantness
investigate how you feel
non-identification: observe from a distance

EMOTIONAL BALANCE
- mindful of own internal emotional experience
- mindful of other's emotions
- responding with awareness

5 emotions
enjoyment
fear
anger
disgust
sadness

functions of emotions
save our lives
motivate our behavior
essential to formation of relationships

characteristics of emotions
short acting
quick onset
out of our control

triggers
universal: fear of death and pain
due to genetic/social learning: fear of spiders, flying

factors that make it difficult to weaken a trigger
how early in life
how intense

the repetition of it
closeness
how closely current instances resemble the trigger

refactory period
period of narrowed/distorted perception triggered automatically
thinking cannot incorporate information that does not fit, maintain or justify the emotion we are feeling

factors which lengthen refactory period
lack of sleep
alcohol
work stress
long buildup of resentment

destructive emotional behavior
harmful to yourself and others
feel and show the right emotion but at an inappropriate time

feel the appropriate emotion but expressed it in a hurtful way
- passive agressive

constructive emotional behavior
promote understanding

in the appropriate amount
express emotions at the right time and in the right way

anger
fight, remove emotions

fear
flight, escape from threat
we can be afraid of anything

sadness
want to be reassured
elicit connection and caring from others

disgust
get rid of something harmful or poisonous
when grown up, we tend to be more disgusted with behaviors than things
intimacy is what makes things that would otherwise be disgusting pleasant

surprise
focus your attention to identify something
has to be unexpected

contempt
assert superiority

enjoyment
deepen connection and co-operation

emotion alert database
contains universal themes, but mostly filled with triggers we've learned

hedonic pleasures
stimulation need

what i can get from the world
sets us up for unhappiness

heudamonic pleasures
genuine, lasting well-being
what i can offer the world

the role of attitude
H = S + C + V
H= enduring happiness
S= 50% personal characteristics
C. 10% life circumstances
V= 40% voluntary control (activities you choose)

positivity ratio
3 positives to 1 negative
tipping point: languishing vs. flourishing

5 Steps to Overcoming the Hindrances to Mindfulness

1. Understand them

2. Recognize them when they arise

3. See through them

4. Release them

5. Apply an antidote

antidotes to drowsiness

1. Adjust your posture (sit tall, raise hands, open eyes, raise gaze)

2. View energy as a non-limited resource

3. Value awareness
- appreciate ability to pay attention

shamata
develops the faculties of awareness and introspection to enhance stability and vividness of attention
focused attention

samadhi
development of shamata


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