Relationships
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22 Questions

1. From a susrvey on causes of breakups - Autonomy 37% Similarity 30% Supportiveness 27% Openness 22% Fidelity 17% Togetherness 16% Equity 12%

2. Positivity - Openness - Assurances - Social network - Sharing tasks - Sharing activities - Support - Conflict management - Avoidance - Humor

3. Response to a realistic danger in past - present or future

4. The ability to influence the behavior of others and to resist their influence on us

5. Being ignored; cold shoulder - Used to avoid confrontation or calm down after conflict - threatens need to belong - leaves people angry and in the dark

6. Control of valuable resources - having a resource if other people want it - Principle of lesser interest (i.e. showing you have no interest) - You can get what you want elsewhere too

7. High social skills - Not much to lose - An unattractive target

8. Say your side and work toward a common solution - Involves direct and indirect approaches as well

9. Acting constructively in the face of attack - Involves direct and indirect approaches as well

10. Liars tend to view their deception as less serious than the recipient - Self-serving bias

11. Hurtful actions by people we trust - Involves relational devaluation - Most intense hurt from people we love - Loyalty to multiple people (sometimes occur when people have the best intentions)

12. A persona can unilaterally determine what will happen next E.g. parent-child relationship

13. We fluctuate in our pursuit of different goals (opposing motivations) Examples include: Autonomy vs. connection (wanting to be alone but want to be close) - Openness vs. closeness - Stability vs. change - Integration vs. separation

14. Fighting over whose account of an incident is right and whose is wrong

15. It is reproductively advantageous to keep outsiders from the relationship

16. The degree to which others consider their relationships with us to be valuable

17. A decision to give up your perceived or actual right to get even with or hold in debt someone who has wronged you - Secure attachments are more likely to forgive

18. By changing your own behavior - you can influence the behavior of a partner E.g. romantic relationship

19. 1. Criticism - demanding; derogatory as far as recipient is concerned 2. Illegitimate demands - unjust demands - 3. Rebuffs - one person appeals for a desired reaction but the other person does nothing - 4. Cumulative annoyances - builds up over time

20. 1. Direct - ask for what you want (more satisfied people/men) 2. Indirect - hinting or pouting (not as satisfied/women) 3. Unilateral - work alone (less powerful/women) 4. Bilateral - work together (more powerful/men)

21. Sincere apology and empathy from victim

22. Speak hesitantly - Higher pitch - Grammatical errors - Blink more often - Mismatch b/w facial expression and tone of voice - Know the person well